Listen Closer: Your Dog's Trying to Tell You Something
Let’s be real—when your dog’s chewing the corner of your couch or barking out the window like it’s a full-time job, it’s easy to think they’re just acting up. But here’s the truth: dogs don’t act out for no reason. Every action, every bark, every zoomie at 2 a.m.—it all means something. Most of the time, they’re not being “bad”… they’re just trying to tell you something in the only way they know how.
Think about it like this: dogs are masters of energy and environment. They’re constantly picking up on our vibes, our routines (or lack of them), and what we allow or ignore. If your pup’s behavior seems off, try asking why before you jump to what did they do now? Are they bored? Overstimulated? Feeling anxious because your schedule changed? That chewed-up shoe might be frustration. That nonstop barking could be pent-up energy or them alerting you to something they think is important.
A lot of us didn’t grow up learning animal behavior—we just loved dogs and did our best. But understanding even a little bit about why dogs do what they do can change everything. It creates trust. It builds a bond. It lets your dog feel seen instead of just “trained.”
Now, I studied animal science, so this kind of stuff is second nature to me—but you don’t need a degree to become fluent in your dog’s language. You just need patience, observation, and the willingness to meet them where they are.
Start small:
Notice when certain behaviors happen (time of day, triggers, who’s around).
Create routines—dogs thrive on knowing what’s next.
Use positive reinforcement to shape behavior, not fear or punishment.
And most importantly, give your dog the time and space to just be a dog.
You don’t have to be an expert—you just have to be tuned in. Because the more you listen, the less your dog will have to shout.
At The Bark Park, we see it every day—dogs that just needed the right kind of attention and environment to thrive. And when that switch flips? Man, it’s like watching someone finally get heard for the first time.
So next time your dog’s doing “the most,” pause for a second. They might just be saying, “I need you to understand me.”
And when you do? That’s where the real connection starts.
Until next time,
Emondre
